I finally figured out my word for 2015. Or more likely I guess, I already have my word for 2016.
I had decided on “Let it Go” for 2015. But as much as I liked it, it didn’t really resonate with me. I did work on letting things, not worrying and/or obsessing over what I can’t change. I think I’m better about that.
So maybe Let it Go was not ambitious enough.
You know how things/phrases/people sometimes converge and you know you need to pay attention?
I’ve had that happen lately about being brave.
I read an amazing book recently. I’ll review it soon, I promise.
Then I heard a podcast sermon about Matthew 18. Closely followed by a podcast interview which cited the same passage. What I took away from both was that when someone has hurt you, the burden to set it right is on the person who was wronged. I think I had to hear two separate messages about this because the first one I pretty much ignored.
I saw a quote from Louis C.K. recently. He said, “When a person tell you that you hurt them, you don’t get to decide that you didn’t.”
I love this! For several reasons, but first of all because several years ago, I was hurt by someone. I told them I was hurt and was told I was in the wrong for being hurt. That festered for a long time. I did the right thing. I took it to that person in private and was completely shot down and ignored. That’s not a great way to heal a damaged relationship. Reading this quote was incredibly freeing. It validated everything I felt back then as well as the lingering vestiges of hurt that still try to derail me.
Then, as if I needed one last indication, an opportunity fell into my lap last week to say something to someone that needed to be said. Normally, I’d just pass it by and tell myself not to rock the boat, “let it go.” 😉
But instead, I decided to be brave and speak up.
Guess what happened? The person heard me, apologized, and we moved on. It’s over.
All because I was brave.
So that’s why I’ve adopting it as my 2016 word. It’s kind of like the calendars that go on sale at this time of year. You know. They’re advertised as being 16-month calendars, to encourage you to buy now and use it for the rest of this year and all of next year. Except the extra four months from this year are all listed on one page. No pretty picture as a header. No space to write appointments. Basically, a bait and switch, in my not so humble opinion.
But I’m getting an early start on being brave and I plan to carry it from this year and throughout the next.
Have you started thinking about your word/phrase for next year yet? Or am I the only one?
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Good for you! I had a really good word this year, but I have picked mine for 2016 too. Nothing like planning ahead, so thanks for coming out and saying so!
I love your 2015 word! I expect it will be mine down the road at some point. We should all shine!
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